Explore these resources if it's difficult to orgasm with a partner.
Layla suggests slowing way down and allowing yourself time to get aroused and turned on for pleasure. We invite you to explore the resources below and find what works best for you.
Skin friendly oil such as coconut, almond or sesame oil or pure silicone lube may help. Raw, organic, unprocessed oils are best but see what works for you. There is even unscented coconut oil, who knew? We don't recommend using essential oils on your vagina as it may irritate the very sensitive skin.